Self-remembrance is a very powerful process to achieve the ultimate consciousness. Constantly in you, for a moment you remember you exist, and after a moment you will forget you exist, and your mind starts wandering here and there.
Please understand, what you do whole day using your individual identity does not matter, but where you park your individual identity when you are not doing anything really matters!
Always fight the lower level problems with the higher identity. When you infuse the higher identity in your body it is health; in your mind, it is joy; in your consciousness, it is enlightenment.
Unless I put my finger on your wound, on your ego, how can I apply the medicine? If you decide to stand the process without running away, you will be raised to the same space as me.
The moment you say, I have a choice, you already assumed the kartrtva (sense of doership). When all the five senses are put together, suddenly a wrong alchemy happens ā sense of doership.
Basic law is, everybody is good at everything. The moment you say you are good at something, not good at something else, over! It is a simple ego game.
Unknowingly does not mean you can do anything you want and there is just no need to be responsible. Unknowingly only means that somewhere, secretly, you are still comfortable with your patterns.