Self-remembrance is a very powerful process to achieve the ultimate consciousness. Constantly in you, for a moment you remember you exist, and after a moment you will forget you exist, and your mind starts wandering here and there.
Unless I put my finger on your wound, on your ego, how can I apply the medicine? If you decide to stand the process without running away, you will be raised to the same space as me.
The moment you say, I have a choice, you already assumed the kartrtva (sense of doership). When all the five senses are put together, suddenly a wrong alchemy happens ā sense of doership.
Basic law is, everybody is good at everything. The moment you say you are good at something, not good at something else, over! It is a simple ego game.