When you are in love, the fulfillment center is awakened, and it does not let you think about future security. Even if you have one question about future security, you are not in love.
All phobias are frozen mood swings. The only solution is ajapa japa. Decide not to lie down along with phobia or mood swing - stand up with ajapa japa.
The sacred secret of my existence is, I am completely happy with the chaos in me. I don’t try to make it organized. Chaos is nothing but trying to avoid everything that gives you suffering, and trying to move towards joy always.